Welcome, glad you're here

I'm Ashley Berges.

Live Your True Life Coach, two time author, syndicated National talk show host of Live Your True Life Perspectives, Telly Award winning TV show host, and Producer of The Celebrity Perspective on Amazon Prime.

About Me

Ashley Berges is a philosopher, Licensed Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Master Life Coach, Social and Emotional Intelligence Coach, Motivational Keynote Speaker, Host of the Nationally Syndicated Radio Talk Show "Live Your True Life Perspectives", and a life-changing writer. With her keen understanding of the human condition, why we do what we do, and how to make the smart, rich choices in our lives, Ashley has dedicated her life to the empowerment of others to make massive positive change in their lives, creating a healthy, happier, and more joy-filled life for themselves and the world. 

What People Are Saying About Me:

You are saving my life. Trying to mentally get out of a horrible relationship. I am 59 and in a very scary position in my life and your videos are pulling me out of the hole. I recently bought your book and am working on it.  


Hi Ashley,

I just wanted to send you a note and let you know how eye opening your podcast has been for me. I just finished listening to "In A Relationship With A Borderline.". It's made me see I've been in a vicious cycle of dating people and getting close to people who have BPD, and given me some perspective on the fact that I as well might be suffering from aspects of this disorder. 

Thank you.


Good afternoon Ashley,

I would love to have you as my coach to help me heal and get through some tough spots in my life. I enjoy your YouTube videos and feel your content is really helping me along the way. 

Thank you


Hi Ashley,

I found you yesterday on YouTube. I've been watching your YouTube videos, and they're helping me. I want to and need to move forward in my life. I'm stuck in grief unfortunately, and I want out of the grief. To make a long story short, I lost my son to a heroin overdose 2 years and 9 months ago. It really bothers me. I'm wanting to inquire about your life coaching program. My intent would be to get guidance on how I can move on and let go of the sadness. How much would something like that cost, and would you have any openings? Let me know what you think. 

Thank you


Hello Ashley

I’m pretty sure that I came across your YouTube piece on being married to a person with borderline by way of an act of God. You have given me so much clarity at a time in my life where I felt so guilty about filing a divorce just this week on my husband. 95% of what you talked about in that piece correlated to exactly what I have been experiencing in five years of marriage and then some before we were married. I can't tell you the sense of relief I feel by being able to identify a reason and having a name for all the behaviors my husband has exhibited. My husband and I have been separated since beginning of the year. I had to take out an order protection against him to protect myself and my two small daughters. The separation has enabled me to move from experiencing panic attacks when I come home from work, the constant anxiety pain in my chest from walking on egg shells around him, and has enabled me to begin to see clarity  This is very sad situation that I find myself in but I just wanted to let you know that I found some comfort in your words. The road is going to be a long one ahead and not easy.


Can I hire you? 

Your information on married to a borderline has helped me understand what has happened to me, and why my wife ran off with another guy after 15 years. We have 2 sons (6 and 12) together. I need help to recover faster and take care of our sons. I’m not letting go and moving on fast enough to be who I need to be for me, my sons, my work and my life. 

Thank you!


I've been watching all your videos for almost 2 years now!! I love your take on everything you've shared!!  I'm really hurting and could really use some good advice!! I understand that you're a very busy lady and if you don't have the time it’s okay you won't lose a fan!! No worries!! Email me back if you do have the time though and I will tell you what has happened in my life and why I'm reaching out to you!!  



I’ve listened to your podcast on bpd a handful of times now, in complete shock that I was in a relationship with one for three years. Wow!! My first question is do they know they have this disorder? Would it or do any good or make it worse to send them this info? I got out of the relationship and am seeking therapy. I tried to remain friends with him but sounds like that’s not possible after listening to this. Even so, I’d love to see him get help. Thank you so much for posting this podcast it’s changed my life (sigh of relief).



I have been listening to you for over a year now.  I have read most of your information on BPD.  It intrigued me. I have known my wife for almost 6 years now. I don’t want to waste much of your time, so I will summarize the best I can and as quickly as possible.  We were together for 2.5 years before we had our first child.  I’ve tried my best to get along and accommodate her and make her feel protected.  It got to the point where I would come home after work and she would already be drunk and it was almost every night i was avoiding a physical altercation. My emotions were in a blender. I visited with a local physician, he told me about BPD, so I began my research and now here I am reaching out to you. When I listened to

your radio shows I felt as if you were talking directly to me. I do not regret my two children with her, but I do regret the fact of being weak and loving someone that shows no affection and puts our family on a rollercoaster.  I’m sure you get a ton of these emails. My fingers are crossed you will receive this to help me or just simply touch base. Thank you very much. You are an inspiration.


Happy Sunday 

I just wanted to let you know that you make a difference. I am a high school counselor working on my LPC. I started to listen and follow you while traveling this summer. Your words of wisdom have made me a better person and I truly appreciate and respect you giving me a new perspective. Thank you so much and keep reaching for the stars❣️Take care



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